Work with me as a

private client

… and experience the bespoke attention and unique, hand-held guidance you need to heal your inner child and become the woman, parent and partner you were always meant to be.

Apply to work with me 1:1

You deserve to experience the freedom that comes with letting go of the past.

Through 1:1 Private Client work, you will be guided through a holistic, healing process that works, unearthing the ROOT causes of whatever is holding you back, distentangling yourself from generational patterns and finally enjoying life!

What is 1:1 Private Client work?

Private client work a provides a tailored, hand-held, healing framework for women and mothers who know how they want to show up in theory but can’t seem to do so in practise.

They already have awareness of why they are so reactive but they haven’t yet found the tools they need to be able to change.

This is what I provide.

Working together, we first explore the gap between the nurturing you needed and what your parents were able to provide.

Next, you learn how to let go of any old, stuck, ‘negative’ feelings that you weren’t able to process as a child or adolescent and to receive the nurturing you’ve always longed for from your unconditionally-loving and fiercely-protective ‘inner parent’.

Slowly, your nervous system starts to stabilise, leading to the grounding and calm you need to handle your own (and others’) big feelings without taking things personally.

Combining somatic, cognitive and emotional approaches to your healing process fast-tracks your path to feeling like you are enough, achieving in months what may take years when following more traditional, single-focus talk-based therapies, emotional release strategies or somatic-based techniques.

Dysfunctional family patterns are overcome, you are no longer so affected by what other people think and you apply your rediscovered, innate capacity and skills to show up for yourself, kids and partner in the ways that are required.

I’ve supported hundreds of women worldwide to break free from past trauma to build lives they actually enjoy living. I would love to help you do the same.

The 1:1 Private Client Pathway

Step 1:‍ ‍6 months*
Foundational Programme

This is the essential first step for every private client. We move beyond surface-level coping mechanims to identify and heal the ‘Mother and Father Imprints’ at the root of your current triggers.

The Format: High-focus mentorship with fortnightly, 90-minute sessions and weekly email check-ins.

The Result: A grounded, authentic version of yourself that no longer reacts from old wounds in just 12 sessions!

*time needed by most mamas to both reach their goals and fully integrate the mother and father imprint.

Step 2:‍ ‍Ongoing Maintenance Sessions

After the Foundational Programme, we shift from healing the past to mastering the present. This flexible, graduate-only space ensures your transformation becomes your permanent baseline.

This is bespoke, ad-hoc coaching through a psychodynamic lens, booked as frequently or infrequently as you need.

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Eleanor

“This work has opened me up – I have a greater awareness of why I may feel a certain way and can now honor my instincts and voice. I now know I have the power to create my own inner peace and that I am lovable (flaws and all!) just as I am.”

“When we first connected, I felt defeated and incapable of becoming the gentle parent I so desperately wanted to be. Too often, no matter what my intellect and heart truly wanted, in the moment, my whole body would be overtaken by years of poor coping. I was desperate to bridge this gap and to find a way to embody my best intentions.
I had worked with therapists before but never with a coach. I was cautiously optimistic that working with Lavinia would enable me to breakthrough – she was the first person with whom I have worked who truly understood my struggles and this gave me hope that I could, too. In the back of my mind, however, I was afraid that I would fail because I was fundamentally broken.
Before our first session, I felt hopeful that this work could make a true difference and I was ready to do whatever it took. From our first conversation, I knew that Lavinia was just the person I needed to hold my hand through this raw and uncomfortable work. I felt safe, seen and supported.
With Lavinia’s support and guidance, I healed the trauma that, unbeknownst to me, had been poisoning my sense of self and therefore, so many aspects of my present life.
This work has opened me up – I have a greater awareness of why I may feel a certain way and can now honor my instincts and voice. I now know I have the power to create my own inner peace and that I am lovable (flaws and all!) just as I am. I accept I am only human and that this is a life’s work.
I finally have the tools and confidence to pick myself back up and keep trying which has allowed me to give myself more grace as I do my best each day to show up for my boys. This healing and clarity have also freed me from certain triggers, from my own unrealistic expectations and from prolonged pain with my parents, which had been popping up in other dynamics as well.
I surprised myself the most during the series by realizing that my voice has always been there. I was just too distracted by the noise—fear, shame and over-analysis—to listen to it.
My biggest learning was that I am a thinking, feeling, imperfect being, not a robot who can execute to task every time. I am powered by my heart, not batteries, and this is what it means to be alive and to grow!
I absolutely think that the coaching series was good value and I want to thank Lavinia for sharing her vulnerability, empathy, deep insights and patience - thank you for believing in and walking with me. You are a gift.”

Shannon

“Since coaching, gosh, so much has improved - I’m beyond the moon! I feel like I’ve lost over 100 pounds off my back... I can say that I truly love myself and that I’m happy - I now have a zest for life and for knowledge - I want to experience everything!”

“When we first connected, I was experiencing outbursts of anger and rage towards my family, I wasn’t able to cope with negative feedback or energy outside the home, and I wasn’t confident in my daily actions or decisions. I felt so lost and hopeless.
I had never worked with a coach before but before our first session, I felt so excited and ready for whatever was required to get to a better place.
Since coaching, gosh, so much has improved - I’m beyond the moon! I feel like I’ve lost over 100 pounds off my back and I now have so much more space to manage the varying energies that come my way throughout the day, especially from my children.
I’m much calmer and no longer get anxious over the small things that occur during the day. I can say that I truly love myself and that I’m happy - I now have a zest for life and for knowledge - I want to experience everything!
I surprised myself the most during our series by seeing immediate changes even after a few sessions. I was also surprised by how much of the inner work was done internally and not discussed out loud which gave me more time to really think things through.
My biggest learning was how much my past trauma was directly affecting my current relationships, and that with the right guidance and tools, anything is possible!
The coaching series was great value - Lavinia helped me with healing my past as well as with my current marriage troubles. I finished feeling very satisfied. Thank you so very much!”

Leanne

“I’m more grounded, more present, more aware of my needs, and more likely to fill my space in the room.

I am kinder to myself, and I am learning to respect myself. I am learning to ‘show up’ more - in relationships and at work - which means making choices/decisions, giving my opinion, and putting myself forward for a role which I would previously have shied away from.”

“I felt lost, lonely, stuck and trapped in a cycle of frustration and resentment about so many things. My relationship with my husband and my kids was failing and I didn’t like myself very much. I had tried various therapies and counsellors, self-help books etc. Still, I had lost any faith that anything would work - I felt like I’d been going around in circles with anxiety, depression and general low self-esteem ever since I was a teenager, and had started to think that it was just the way I was. There was no way out of it.
The biggest change I’ve witnessed in myself is that I’m more grounded, more present, more aware of my needs, and more likely to fill my space in the room. I am kinder to myself, and I am learning to respect myself. I am learning to ‘show up’ more - in relationships and at work - which means making choices/decisions, giving my opinion, and putting myself forward for a role which I would previously have shied away from.
The continual email access to Lavinia in between sessions was invaluable. It definitely helped to keep the momentum going between sessions, and I’m sure it led to many more insights than the sessions alone would have done. My biggest learning however was how many habits and beliefs I was/am still carrying from my parents/grandparents and how much these things have affected how I live my life - how much I was ashamed of my inner child/my background – and how good I’ve been at ‘intellectualising’ my issues, rather than feeling them and healing them.”

This 1:1 programme will help you…

1. Reclaim Your Capacity to Trust

Build a deep capacity to feel safe as well as trust in yourself, in others and in life again. By compassionately examining how your own upbringing shaped you, you’ll gain total clarity on how you relate to yourself and how you show up as a parent and a partner. You will no longer feel isolated by your self-sufficiency but able to ask for and receive help as well as give it.

3. create the safe parent you never had

By learning how to reparent the part of you that didn’t receive the nurture she needed in the way that she needed it, you replace decades of uncertainty, mistrust, loneliness, shame self-doubt and fear with the unconditional love of a safe, caring other, allowing you to hone your capacity to both give and receive love with the most important people in your life.

2. Release the emotions stuck in your body

Experience the profound relief of consciously releasing emotions that have been stored in your body for decades. Through a combined cognitive, emotional and somatic approach, we’ll clear the backlog of anger and grief provoked by your early, negative experiences of dysfunctional family dynamics, and create room for joy to come in.

4. Align your actions with your true self

By making conscious the deepest fears behind your core wounds, you can begin to replace the self-limiting coping mechanisms that are driving your behaviour with sustainable values such as integrity, resilience, self-compassion, presence, confidence and grounding, so you can choose who you want to be in every moment.

Is 1:1 Client Work right for me?
This is for you if…

You are tired of "surface-level" fixes. You’ve tried the breathing exercises and the podcasts, but you know your reactions are coming from somewhere deeper. You’re ready to stop managing symptoms and start healing the root.
You feel "hijacked" by your triggers. You’re a capable, loving person, yet you find yourself reacting with "mama rage" or martyrdom in ways that don't align with who you truly are.
You recognize the patterns. You can see your own upbringing reflected in the way you parent or partner, and you are deeply committed to breaking these toxic cycles for your children and future generations.
You crave high-level, bespoke support. You don't want a generic course or group programme. You thrive under the laser focus of a one-to-one relationship where your specific experiences become the sole priority.
You are ready to invest in yourself. You view your emotional health as your top priority and understand that this level of transformation requires a full commitment of your time, energy, and finances.
You want to show up fully in every area of life. Beyond parenting, you want to heal the attachment wounds that are holding you back from the confidence and connection you deserve at work, in your social life, and in your marriage.

“Since the series, I feel that a huge amount of anxiety and pain has been expressed and released - I was really taken aback by all the inner life from the past that was waiting to be processed and I no longer feel the burden of it… am finally FEELING things - without needing to justify or excuse this, or get ashamed about having emotions. My self-esteem is higher, I can receive and offer praise, I’m no longer seeking as much external approval and I am being more genuine because I am aware of the depth of my feelings, and how important it is to honour them, rather than push them aside.”

— Emily

How the Private Client Programme works

To ensure we have a dedicated, protected container for your transformation, we schedule your full, four-month journey in advance. After our discovery call, we will move through the following together:

The Sessions
You will have eight holistic healing sessions* (one every two weeks). Each 90-minute, face-to-face session takes place via video call in the location where you feel most comfortable.

Your First Foundation Session: We begin with a guided, intuitive process to unearth the two core goals that will provide the direction for our work together.
Your Following Foundation Sessions: We focus on the deep inner work and the emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual support you require to release old, stuck emotions and body-held trauma. We heal your wounded inner child and overcome the dysfunctional family patterns holding you back at home, at work, and in your relationships through a combination of deep, in-session dives and tailored ‘actions’ for you to apply during sessions to move you forwards towards your goals.
Beyond Foundation Sessions: Once you have met your goals within the Foundation Programme, and you are anchored in your new-found confidence, strength, and worth, you are ready to move into the integration phase. You will have the option to continue working 1:1 with me on an ongoing basis through integration sessions, booked as frequently as you like.

Weekly Reflections
Between face-to-face sessions, you will have weekly online check-ins. This allows us to process breakthroughs in real-time, navigate current triggers, unpack what has arisen as a result of your ‘actions’ and ensure you feel fully held throughout the entire, four-month container.

Investment
Payment is per month in advance.

*average time needed to fully integrate the mother and father imprint. Most will reach their goals in this time, some will require 2 to 4 more sessions to feel whole, a few will require a little longer.

Apply now to become a private client