Adversity From My Past Was Haunting My Relationships

When we first connected, adversity from my past was haunting my relationships - I was carrying large ‘bricks’ around in my ‘backpack’ from trauma I experienced when I was younger. I did not feel safe, I hated saying "no", I was hiding my true self from certain people, and I was overworked and not enjoying my life.

My strategies, before coaching, included gaslighting myself and pushing through to get the next thing done.

Before our first session together, I felt like I might be judged due to my religious beliefs but Lavinia embraced every part of me and did not show any judgment whatsoever. She was loving and accepting even if she did not share my belief system - she honored mine.

Since coaching, I am mindful (not perfect, but definitely making progress) of when my little girl is in the driving seat of my life, and since working on reparenting, she has not shown up as much.

I was most surprised during the series by the memories and emotions that came up for me – I was able to process some yucky stuff from childhood that I had not even realized was bothering me before coaching.

My biggest learning during our time together, was that by healing myself, I am the best version of a mother to my son.

I thought that the coaching series was good value, given what I got out of it, and receiving a letter with my goals was precious.

I have love in my heart for Lavinia and appreciate her kindness.

~ Molly Jones, attorney & mama, USA