“Since coaching, my life has improved 100 percent. I am still a work in progress but, my God, I see a completely different person in myself. I have a much better, stronger relationship with my husband and I’m no longer triggered by my daughter who I am now able to support emotionally.

Since working with Lavinia, I catch moments when I’m with my family and feel so proud of myself - I am able to feel real joy and happiness and I now allow myself to savour those moments. I’m more connected to myself and my heart is open to connection and fun.

Inner child work is what surprised me the most during our time together – just how powerful it is. It’s amazing! My biggest learning was that it’s all down to me to change and clear my hurt and my pain (Lavinia’s truth and empathy really helped).

The coaching series was absolutely good value – it was both a fantastic journey as well as so hard. My husband sees the difference in me and it helped to save our marriage.”

— Paula Meehan, UK

“Since my coaching series with Lavinia, I have a much better understanding of what is going on when I am triggered by my son and why I used to get so angry, and I know why and where it is coming from in my life/childhood. 

I learnt that I am triggered by my son because he upsets the peace I crave in life in the exact same way that my sister would upset the peace I had created through being compliant in my relationship with my parents. 

I do still get triggered, but I am triggered less, I am less stressed and I feel somewhat calmer even when my life isn't completely calm. 

As a result of the coaching, I'm slowly learning to cultivate a feeling of peace without always expecting compliance from my son and without compromising my authentic self to comply with what others want just to avoid conflict.”

— Vicky Douxmont, USA